like i tend to be a little self conscious about what people may assume about me, my opinions, and preferences based my appearance
and then there was that whole fiasco a few months back where not-very-nice-people were 100% sure I was a dude just because of my word choice, so……… 

like i tend to be a little self conscious about what people may assume about me, my opinions, and preferences based my appearance

and then there was that whole fiasco a few months back where not-very-nice-people were 100% sure I was a dude just because of my word choice, so………